This is a trackback to the always-wise and relevant @JonDale and his blog post today. Jon tweeted at me that my comments were twice the length of his post. What else is new?
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Jon: I agree with many of your points on the missed opportunity of a more open, sharing-focused society. My major agreement is your insight on fear.
We are in a beta stage that is moving very quickly with a mass audience of 400 million plus participating. But let's face it: face to face communication remains the highest and best form of communication, followed by over the phone, then email. Take face to face for example: there is what is said, and then how it is said. Eyebrows and facial temples communicate amazing amounts of information. Posture? Chin and nose position? If the majority of our communication is non-verbal, and things like inflections, cadence and tone matter greatly, then email and beyond are lacking. For purposes of discussion,
here is Australian Horse Trainer Bart Cummings... how much emotion and language is being communicated via his eyebrows in a still picture?
Now imagine him in video where you can hear cadence.
Now imagine him face-to-face where you can feel the temperature of his tone, the room, the audience, etc.? I think his horses react and take cues from his eyebrows and gaze... it's a primal form of communication.
Privacy standards and opt-in or opt-outs don't undo 2 million years of human evolution.
In the span of a half decade, we have migrated as new beings who have antiquated email and endorsed these secondary levels of communication as our primary-and-standard. I think so much of the privacy conversation is dishonest because it has nothing to do with privacy; privacy is the cause celebre because it's sexy, but it's the symptom on top of our fear. Most experiment participants have brains that have (surprise!) not evolved to the new primary-standard medium. Count me as one of the many. They/I don't know how to chat, text, or video message as a primary form of communication, and therefore consistently stumble, boggle and offend, and then react to the "privacy" factor which allows all this diffuse connectivity.
Where I agree with you Jon is that the real driver here is fear. But in turn, I think privacy is the easy whipping boy in the media-driven conversation. It isn't privacy at all. It is our inability to evolve at light speed to a new standard form of communication that pretty consistently fails or embarrasses.
What is required of our central processing faculties is pretty astounding, and while there is no restriction on speech per se, there is an evolutionary restriction on being understood. I think that latter part is a portion of the privacy factor: as active players in a mass beta test where the rules get made on the go we are afraid due to our agreements with openness, of being known as failures, broadcasting our indiscretions unknowingly to an increasingly distant, virtual audience we say we know, but really don't.